About 4 years ago my dad delivered the news that my grandmother was diagnosed with Dementia. Prior to learning about my grandmother I had beliefs, but did not practice them as much as I felt that I should. After finding out about my grandmother I found myself turning to the internet for words of wisdom to help with coping. More often than not I would end up on a site with scripture to help with specific life situations, feelings and emotions. This is one of the sites I have grown to love over the years: http://scripturemenu.com/
2 years later we found out that my other grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimers. At this point in my life I was finding it harder to deal with my emotions by just reading passages off the internet, so I started attending sunday services again. Being in the church reminded me of all the sunday mornings I had spent with my grandmother in church. My family not be the most religious, never took me to church so my grandmother took it upon herself to take my brother and I, along with our cousin. I remember always getting excited to go to her church and listen to her sing the hymns. In this instance, being in a place that holds memories is what has helped me deal with the illness of a family member; however, my belief that they will be okay after they pass is also something that has helped me deal.
As of today both of my grandmothers are still alive, but both illnesses have taken over the individual that I had loved. Neither of my grandmothers remember who I am, and are far from who they use to be. For me it is easier to think that the people I grew up with have passed away awhile ago, but their memories live on.
According to our text book on page 77, Alzheimer's is the fifth leading cause of death for people over 65 years old. Over time the research on this disease has made it possible to help those who have Alzheimer's. Although there is no cure, genetic research is helping to find a cure. This disease can be hereditary so I truly hope you are looking at the risk factors, such as cholesterol levels, blood pressure, smoking, weight etc.. Thank you for sharing and take care of yourself Jess!
ReplyDeleteMy family has been checking risk factors, as of right now we are mostly only worried about my stepdad and dad considering it is the son that the mothers pass the gene onto. Currently I am taking Cognitive Psychology and we discussed the other day about how Alzheimer's develops in the brain. It was interesting and upsetting at the same time to hear how far my grandmothers have developed and to hear what to expect in the future. Thank you for your kind words Christine!
ReplyDeleteJess
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your story. I've had many friends who have had family that have gone through this very similar scenario.
Although I have no words of wisdom as to how to deal with your grandmother(s) in this state - I can say, love her-she may not know who you are but YOU will and once she's gone you don't want to have regrets.
*hugs
Kimé
Thanks for the advice Kime! I couldn't agree with you more :)
ReplyDeleteHi Jess,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your story with us. Even though it must be difficult to deal with the illness of both of your grandmothers, you seem to be able to find meaning in your experience. It's good that you've been able to find support in your church and that you're reminded of the good times you spent with your grandmother.
I also like the link you shared for Scripture Menu. It's organized in a fun way, but it's also very easy to use. Thanks.
Jenn Stone